ACT LIKE WOMEN

PRAYER GUIDE

WEEK 1

MONDAY

Father, we are made in your image. Male and female you created us. As we seek you through the next few weeks of our Act Like Men series, open our hearts to the goodness of your Word and teach us to walk in your ways. We want to hear from you.

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” Genesis 1:27

TUESDAY

Father, encourage ________’s heart as he seeks to be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like a man, and be strong in you.

“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” 1 Corinthians 16:13

WEDNESDAY

Father, I pray for _______ as he seeks you. I pray that you will continue the work you’ve started in him and bring it to completion. I pray that he will seek you first in all parts of his life and that you will grow his faith and relationship with you.

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.” Philippians 1:6

“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33

THURSDAY

Father, I pray that as ______ leads, provides, and protects our family, you will fill him with more of you and everything he needs to live out such a weighty calling. Father, make our marriage and unity strong in you, and help our marriage reflect Jesus and His church.

FRIDAY

Father, ______ is your son. He is your man. Be his helper and sustain him as he seeks to walk in your ways, keeping your statutes, commandments, rules, and testimonies, so that he will prosper in all that he does.

“…Be strong, and show yourself a man, and keep the charge of the LORD your God, walking in his ways and keeping his statutes, his commandments, his rules, and his testimonies, as it is written in the Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you turn.” 1 Kings 2:2-3

SATURDAY

Father, you are LORD. I pray that you will fill ________ with the knowledge of your will. Give him all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner fully pleasing and worthy of you. I pray that as you increase his knowledge and love of you, his life will be overflowing with fruitfulness. I pray that you will strengthen him with all power according to your might, for all endurance and patience with joy.

“…we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy…” Colossians 1: 9b-11

SUNDAY

Father, your word is living and active. Pour out your Spirit and your Word today. Pierce our hearts with the depth of your Word. We receive your Word. We love you.

“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12

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WEEK 2

MONDAY

Loving Father, You are so kind to us. You are gentle with us, and it is always your kindness that leads us to repentance in all things. Father, You are LORD over our lives, and I pray that You will call to remembrance Your words spoken yesterday. Is there any area You long to work in my life, or in ________’s? I pray that You will guide and direct all our conversations this week and help us to keep control over our words. Life and death are found in them, and we know a gentle answer is able to turn away wrath.

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger.” Proverbs 15:1

TUESDAY

Father, I pray You will help us maintain unity of the Spirit in our household. We want Your peace and gentleness to govern our home, our family, and our lives. We want to be led by your Spirit and for You to help us to be gentle and patient with one another, bearing with one another in love. Father, help us where we are weak.

“I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:1-2

WEDNESDAY

Father, you are good, and all good things come from you. You are the One who gives the growth in our lives. Someone plants, another waters, but it is You who produces the fruit. I pray over _______. I pray that You will produce fruit in his life as he walks with You. I pray that his heart and passion is for You, and that You will grow a harvest of joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in his life.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23

THURSDAY

Jesus, You are gentle and lowly in heart. I pray for _______ as he comes to You. I pray that where he labors and is heavy laden that You will teach him to find his rest in You. Help him to take your yoke and learn from You and continue to grow him in his likeness to You. Help him to find rest in You.

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29

FRIDAY

Father, being reminded of your character, we know You are slow to anger and patient with us. May the love of Christ control us in all that we say and do. Help _______ and I to be quick to hear one another’s hearts and needs. Show us what the true need is and help us to respond in love. Help us to be slow to speak. Govern our thoughts and words because we know that a great forest is set ablaze by a small fire. When we do speak, may our words be filled with life. Father, please help us to be slow to anger. Help us to receive your gentleness, and fight for unity even when it is hard.

“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger, for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness that God requires.” James 1:19-20

SATURDAY

Father, You are our peace. You give us peace that surpasses all understanding when our minds remain on You. Father, focus our attention upon You. Help us to receive peace from You and bring it into our home. I pray our home will be a place saturated with Your love, kindness, and peace. Father, please help us to not let a root of bitterness invade our home but help us to have peaceful communication for the sake of being reconciled in love. Nothing is impossible with You. Father, govern our conversations. Help them to grow us closer to one another and closer to You. Do not let satan get a stronghold and allow roots of bitterness to grow. Help us pull those roots up. You give us the grace; You give us the power, and we will give You the glory for the work You are doing in and through us.

“Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble…” Hebrews 12:14-15

SUNDAY

Father, grow us in the grace and knowledge of Jesus. He is our Savior, and we give all of ourselves back to Him as our Lord. Father, our lives are Yours and belong to You. We will be restless until our hearts rest in You. Father, we pray that You will prepare our hearts for the teaching of your Word today and that we will receive it with glad and open hearts ready to say yes and amen. We love You, and we give Jesus all the glory now and forever.

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.” 2 Peter 3:18

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WEEK 3

MONDAY

Merciful Father, you are holy and pure. You are the Triune God living in perfect unity and harmony with the Son and the Spirit. I pray over my marriage today. Your Word says that you will give me the encouragement and endurance needed to live in harmony with those around me, and I pray that you would especially help me to live in harmony and unity with _________. You have brought us together, and I pray for a special blessing on our marriage. I pray that you will unite our hearts together, reminding us we are on the same team, and help us walk in unity of heart and mind to the praise of your glory.

“May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Romans 15:5-6

TUESDAY

Father, thank you for bringing _____ and I together. I pray that you will give me a vision of what our home can be. I pray that it will be a haven that builds up our family and all who enter. I pray that you will help me see specific ways that I already am and can be a help to ______. I pray that you will grow our companionship, friendship, communication, and deepen our love and intimacy. Father, place your hedge of protection around our marriage.

“Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Genesis 2:18

WEDNESDAY

Father, as I go about my day today, show me ways that I can do ______ good. Show me specific ways that I can pray for him as he leads, provides, and protects our family, as well as specific ways I can be a blessing and an encouragement to him. Strengthen our union with one another and with you.

“The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not harm, all the days of her life.” Proverbs 31:11-12

THURSDAY

Father, I know that encouragement in the mouth of a woman is strong in the heart of a man. Help me to be a woman of encouragement. Show me opportunities throughout the day where I can be an encouragement to ______ and build him up. Father, I want my words to give grace to _______. Help me walk in faithfulness to your Word in this area of my life.

“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” Ephesians 4:29

FRIDAY

Father, search my heart and reveal to me if there is any area where I am harboring unforgiveness towards ________. Father, I don’t want to allow Satan a foothold in our marriage. I surrender this situation, heart attitude, or _________¬¬ to you and ask that you would help to forgive from the heart, as you have forgiven me. I pray that this will be a turning point in our marriage, and a place of growth, reconciliation, restoration, and one where you receive all the glory.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

SATURDAY

Father, I realize that you have shown me perfect love. You are patient and kind. You perfectly model each one of the characteristics in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Father, I pray that you will help _______ and I live this out in our marriage. Help us to be each of these qualities towards one another. May our marriage reflect Christ and the Church. Help us to be patient and kind, not arrogant nor rude. Help us to not insist on our own way but listen to one another and remember we are on the same team. Unify our hearts. Help us to be peace makers and let no root of bitterness take hold. Father, as far as the east is from the west, so far have you removed our sins from us. Help us to be imitators of you and do the same. Father, help us destroy that record of wrong, and instead, rejoice with the truth.

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

SUNDAY

Father, just as I need love, your Word reminds me that _______ needs my respect. Father, help me to respect him in public and private, and help him to continue to rise to be the man he can be, the man you created him to be. May my words and actions affirm him in his manhood and leadership of our family, as well as show him that I believe in him. Father, continue the work you’re doing in our family, and transform us more into the likeness of Jesus each day.

“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” Ephesians 5:33